Current Rant
Thursday, August 21, 2025
The Ugly American
July 8, 2025
Dear Congressman Gottheimer,
We have hosted two foreign exchange students with AFS in the past who lived with us for a year and attended the Hackensack public High School. One was a girl from Liberia who was a recipient of the Kennedy-Lugar Youth Exchange and Study scholarship from the State Department, and one was a boy from Finland.
This year we are supposed to host our third full year exchange student with AFS, a boy from Japan.
Only there appears to be a problem with his getting his Visa for travel, as the US Embassy in Japan is not taking appointments for Visas at this time (see this typo-filled notice posted at the US Embassy website: https://pd.afsusa.org/e/482791/visas-/3fsdf4/845608623/h/8jpWveaLw61KNPYSu-1GVBzsvoeOgD6zXMGwoHk-gwE ). This is a disgrace and should be totally unacceptable for a nation such as ours, especially with a nation such as Japan, with whom we have had such a tight and fruitful relationship since the end of the Second World War. In fact, the AFS exchange program has its roots in bringing together the youth of the former combatant countries -- especially Japan -- to foster a future of peace and understanding. For nearly 70 years, AFS has been successfully bringing together our nations through student exchanges -- until now.
I urge you to please look into this situation, and do what you can to extirpate this odious unprecedented delay in the processing of Visas for one of our best and closest allies. Not only is this lack of appointments unacceptable, the requirement for minors to set all their social media settings to public is not only morally troublesome, but very likely outright illegal, under both our and Japan's laws.
I thank you for your attention to this matter.
Respectfully,
Karl Wagenführ
July 14, 2025
I'm not sure what your office can do. In an ideal world, I would want to upbraid this functionary for this totally cowardly and almost Kafkaesque, ridiculous response. Since 1945, what risk has Japan ever posed to us, especially from its students, wishing to participate in an exchange? Where is this sudden fear of a non-existent threat coming from? And how cowardly is this apparatchik to cow down to the obvious current political pressure driving this and make ridiculous excuses instead of actually doing their job? The eyes of history are watching; bureaucratic claims of merely following orders do not play very well. Now especially we need more Schindlers, and fewer Eichmanns.
I am obviously infuriated. My government is letting me down and actively failing me. We have put aside our time and effort to prepare to welcome a student from a closely aligned, but in many ways very different culture from ours, into our house for a year, to live with us and learn about our country in the best possible way, by living as one of us for a year, attending the local High School. Time, effort, and resources have been spent, by us, by the student, by our High School, by AFS. AFS has been successfully bringing our cultures together for nearly 70 years without incident. (Indeed, this is the very opposite of the phantom security risks claimed in the response.) I don't know what your office can do. Josh Gottheimer is my Representative to this government. I am extremely dissatisfied with what it is doing and why. It is having a palpable negative effect on my life, specifically in that we have been gearing up to have a student come live with us for a year, and now all our preparations are being needlessly thrown into limbo because they won't do their job! They work for us: We the People. But they are currently not doing their jobs! Representative Gottheimer, please: make them do their jobs and give Yuseke his visa so he can come here in a timely manner!
Respectfully,
Karl Wagenführ
July 14, 2025
That reply from the Embassy has really touched a nerve. You see, in 2001 I worked in an office on Maiden Lane, a block and half from the World Trade Center in lower Manhattan. On September 11th, I was on my usual commute from Hackensack to NYC, which would take me right through the World Trade Center as I walked from the ferry at World Financial to Maiden Lane. I saw the second plane hit the tower as my train pulled into Hoboken. Fortunately for me, that was as far as I got that day. I watched as the towers collapsed before my eyes from across the Hudson. Had I taken the earlier train, I might well have lost my life on that day. I don't need to be told about national security and public safety! I still to this day suffer from PTSD related to what I witnessed on that day.
But interestingly it wasn't Japanese kamikaze planes that crashed into the Twin Towers. Despite Japan having been one of our greatest enemies, still within living memory, we have succeeded in making Japan into one of our closest and most successful allies. Today it is one of the most pacific nations in the world. We achieved this not by alienating and vilifying it, but by welcoming and embracing it. This is how we eliminate security and safety risks to the United States, not by isolating nations and their peoples, but by vigorously interacting and exchanging cultural values with them. AFS has certainly played a role in achieving this great victory of peace with Japan by fostering cultural exchanges by having the young people of Japan come to live with families in the US, and having young Americans likewise go to live in Japan.
This is not even a new idea. The failures of the US Diplomatic Corps have been called out since at least 1958 and the publication of The Ugly American. Those failures are what led to what I experienced first hand on September 11, 2001. But that was not Japan. We have been successful beyond our wildest dreams with Japan. Let's not ruin what we have achieved! We want to continue in this 70 year history of welcoming young Japanese people to come live in the US for a year. Everything is in place for Yusuke to come live with us and attend Hackensack High School this year, except for the US Embassy suddenly cowering and not doing its job under ridiculous protestations of threats to security. This is exactly backwards! By continuing to do as we have for the last 70 years is how we continue to ensure our safety, not by bowing to partisan political pressures!
I cannot express how offended I personally am by this response from our Embassy.
Sincerely,
Karl Wagenführ
July 15, 2025
Thank you for forwarding this latest reply. There is some actionable information coded within this latest response, camouflaged under the wildly ridiculous protestations of following orders: while they in Osaka may lack the fortitude to do their legal duty, other consulates may not be as spineless, and it would be useful for Yusuke to widen his scope of consulates to look to grant him his visa. Message received.
(I can't, however, keep myself from refraining to note the ridiculousness of claiming to be worried about antisemitism in Japan, and to further note the irony of relying on the Nuremberg Defense while doing so!)
Thanks again for all your efforts,
Karl
July 22, 2025
Today I received some information from AFS that they seem optimistic that the visa appointment situation will be resolved.
"We have some positive news to share. The US embassy has reached out to our colleagues at AFS Japan and they are working with them to gain appointments for all of the Japanese AFSer's. We are hopeful that things will proceed positively this week. We think it is in no small part thanks to the individual advocacy of host families in the US, that the embassy came through with more support for the group. Thus, you might let your contact at Mr. Gottheimer's office know that AFS has heard from the embassy that they are going to facilitate the appointments for the AFS students and AFS Japan is working on this with the US embassy contacts."
So, fingers crossed.
Thank you for all your help!
cheers,
Karl Wagenführ
July 29, 2025
Things are looking good, we just received this from AFS:
"Great news from JPN this morning: For the remaining JPN students who have not secured their appointment dates, the embassy directly contacted AFS-JPN's travel agent/visa agent to arrange their interviews and group interviews are being coordinated for this Friday, Monday and Tuesday. We should have the interview dates confirmed likely tomorrow. If all goes as planned, most students should be able to arrive in August with relatively short delays."
We'll let you know when he actually has an appointment, but so far so good!
cheers,
Karl
July 31, 2025
Yusuke has an appointment scheduled at the Tokyo embassy on the 4th of August! Hooray. I can't imagine there being problems from here on out, but then again, I don't want to jinx it, and if I've learned anything this year, it's to not underestimate the venal stupidity of the current administration.
Fingers crossed!
Karl
August 6, 2025
AFS has scheduled Yusuke for travel on the 21st of August, so it would appear he has managed to finally get his visa. While this is good news as far as it goes, and I thank you for all your support along the way, I do not want to lose sight of the fact that overall, this whole process has been less than satisfactory, that our Consular Services are failing us: Yusuke should have been here today; instead, he will lose nearly a month off his exchange year, crucial time he could have used to better integrate into his American high school. As it stands now, he may not be able to participate in the soccer program as he was hoping to due to his late arrival. All of this was completely unnecessary, a manufactured crises perpetrated by our foreign services in a misguided effort to mollify outrageous political pressure, which is a shameful state of affairs.
I thank you and Congressman Gottheimer for supporting and standing with us through this ordeal. But please don't lose sight of the fact that none of this should ever have happened in the first place!
Sorry for being such a downer,
Karl
While Yusuke succeeded in getting a visa, other Japanese exchange students from different exchange programs than AFS were not so fortunate and have not been able to go on their exchange year to the US.
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